Our 8th
Reunion was held at King’s Hotel in Havelock Road on 27 July 2003, three
months later than originally scheduled because of the SARS outbreak.
Despite
heavy showers, one by one of our group of 25 septuagenarians strolled into
smiling. Discerning body language and animated facial expressions revealed
that signs of age have significantly affected some of us by degrees. Was
it different in terms of behaviour patterns compared to our last Reunion?
Perhaps.
Two proud
grandfathers admitted that they had overshot the venue, although they had
been there before. Another two complained of poor vision, having given up
night driving. Sadly, one could not even recognize himself featured in old
Reunion photographs taken in the eighties.
Two
others had been hit with “old timer’s disease”, and thus had completely
forgotten about the function, despite reminders and the fact they already
paid for the dinner. Such is life. The clock ticks on mercilessly …
The famous Penang
cuisine at King’s was as usual excellent. The evening also saw the
distribution of our Class of ’51 publication, “Sheaf of Memories”, to all
present. Casual and serious conversations brought laughter and the ACS
Spirit permeated and lingered on throughout the evening. For the first
time, there was this focused prime-time sharing of personal health
problems between old friends.
“You have prostate
problem? When?”
“Well,
it comes like a bonus, when you are over 70!”
“Weeks ago, I had
gout – terribly painful!” declared a 73-Teochew boy. There was this
commonality of sufferings. I suppose the act of sharing brought some
degree of comfort.
On the brighter side
of life, the Sunday evening was simply nostalgic and equally boisterous
and gay. Lots of funny stories and reminiscences brought more laughter. As
respectable retirees, we have all grown older – and not necessarily wiser
– our combined age amounting to 1788 years!
We were the last
group of diners to leave the hotel. After our official photographer Keng
Yee had recorded our gathering, we said good bye until we meet again at
the next Reunion. Our bodies might have been weary, but our spirits were
elated – happy to have seen old friends again.
Sng Cheok Kye
Class of ‘51